(..) This is what changed about me, from being afraid [of male genitals and intimacy with a male partner] to loving it now. Also I do enjoy when he pleasures me.[…] I have made big progress. Thank you dear Stella as you are the one who has helped me through our sessions to open more to sexuality, and a relationship.

(Female client)

“Thank you for today’s session. A wonderful warm energy flowed through your hands from the first moment, which I found very healing. And also your own comfort with making sounds and movement helped me to relax and open up. I enjoyed the slow pace of the work which enabled me to listen very deeply to my body and feelings, all round it was a very comforting and healing experience in which I felt lovingly well held.”

CJ, female client


Sexological Bodywork


I am a Certified Sexological Bodyworker and offer sessions in my private practice in London Leyton, for men, women and couples.


Sexological Bodyworkers are Somatic Educators – we are hands-on facilitators in order to improve the relationships you have with your body, your Self, and your loved ones. We aim to create somatic experiences for you that may completely shift your horizons, and may alter and enhance the way you perceive yourself, your body or your sexuality. Come and see me if you


  • wish to have a better relationship with your body and your sexuality
  • want to enhance your self pleasuring practice, or your way of interacting sexually with loved ones
  • feel that sexual shame stands in the way of you openly, lovingly and confidently interacting with others
  • suffered trauma in the area of sexuality
  • have a specific issue around sexuality that you would like to consult me about
  • crave loving and honouring touch for every bit of your body, and deep relaxation

Professional guidelines require that I remain fully dressed, and that touch would be one-way only.

Upcoming Workshops and Events




Cuddle Party

This is our regular event – I try to schedule one about every month, unless I’m travelling….


Saturday, September 10th, 2pm - 5:30pm, in East London. More info, and book your place

Sept 22nd – 25th Brno/Czech Republic. Evening lecture and Cuddle Party event.

Sept 26th Bratislava/Slovakia. Official Cuddle Party.

October 19th Anal Play for Couples Workshop. Scarlet Ladies in London.

Oct 29th/30th London Master Lovers Experience Weekend. Book here. Limited number of EARLY BIRD tickets available before Sept15th.

This weekend is for you if you want to significantly enhance your touch and lovemaking skills by understanding both men’s and women’s sensual needs better, and transform your touch by taking Betty Martin’s work into sensuality. We will also practice communicating about our specific desires, in order to receive exactly what we want, and to practice both our Yes’s and No’s confidently. A safely held, sensual, and eye opening weekend for men and women. It will include a demo of intimate touch for a man and a woman, however there wont be any nudity in the rest of the workshop, and only limited intimate touch over clothes, within individual consent. We are planning a beautiful ritual for women to receive touch from men for Saturday evening – change into something you feel sensual in.

The Art of Touch & Cuddle Party Workshops

Cuddle Party


Cuddle Parties are non-sexual events where we can practice our Yes’s and No’s powerfully, feel our boundaries, and express our desires for touch and closeness. They are clothes-on, and safely held, a mixture between a workshop and a social gathering. I am a Certified Cuddle Party Facilitator.


I also teach private sessions and workshops on The Art of Touch.


Cuddle Session Review by Metro Journalist

This is a link to the full page review in the U.K. online publication Metro. The journalist is reviewing the experience of having a first session ever with a professional cuddler.

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