Sex coaching for Women
Find your Full Sexual Aliveness, Confidence, and Radiance
Expert Coaching and Sexological Bodywork in my Central London practice, and via Zoom.
Would you like to experience your Self in Full Sexual Aliveness? Try Sex Coaching for YOU.
Whether to have Sex Coaching to explore your Sexual Fantasies, or address and overcome a very specific issue, you are welcome here as you are. Stella offers Sex Coaching and Sexological Bodywork in person, and online (Zoom or Skype).
How Can I Help You?
Sensual Exploration and Boundaries
A great number of women have never voiced their own desires and preferences. We safely start fully clothed, and by activating your touch and pleasure sensations, and practice remaining fully authentic in your Yes’s and No’s. A fun and explorative session where you can learn about your own pleasure preferences, feel free to explore, and also practice to communicate before and during sex, which is a vital skill. We would typically start the session with tools and techniques based on Betty Martin’s Wheel of consent, and also then proceed to Sexological Bodywork, and you can decide if you want to remain clothed, or not. Depending on the exercises we do, in this session you can receive consensual platonic or intimate touch, and feel like a Queen!
Not having had sex for a long time, and would like to gain confidence for dating again? Playful sensual and sexual explorations with our own body, and being able to say No at every step on the way, can enable you to relax around the issue of sexuality, and to show yourself as a powerful Sexual Being, who has agency about how and with whom to engage, and to what degree. We can start the session fully clothed, and with an exploration into your sexual and sensual history, and then find an intention for the session from an embodied place. Self-touch exercises, or me touching you, fully clothed or fully undressed, or anything inbetween, this session is about exploring your own pleasure and authenticity, and will happen at your own pace.
Orgasm for the First Time Ever?
Whether it’s your first time, or you would like to experience bigger or better orgasms, we would go at your own pace, and playfully explore the orgasmic potential of your entire body. Decide if you want to be clothed or not, use toys, or just fingers, want to be touched intimately by me, or not. Expect a pleasure based session with giggles and excitement, and rest assured that you have agency at all times. We would use breathing exercises to help you relax, and also integrate your entire body in the experience. Welcome!
For some reason, a lot of experiences seem to be held in our vaginas, as tension, pain, or tender spots that bring up strange images, and tons of emotions. Vaginal numbness can also be a symptom that can mask pain underneath. This is a very leisurely session of minute mapping of your intimate parts with my gloved fingers, and listening to their unique language. This is also a session suitable alongside psychotherapy or counselling, to overcome specific personal or family trauma. Usually a very deep meditative exploration into the Core of your Feminine Being.
Pain during penetrative sex can have a number of factors. Sometimes women experience it from the very beginning of their first attempts to have penetration, as a tightening of muscles around the vagina, called vaginismus, at other times it occurs after childbirth, or other significant events. We would need to explore which factors are underlying, and would then embark on a playful exploration of your sensations and your pleasure points. Sometimes, vaginal scarring is the reason for painful sex, which I would reduce with gentle massaging with organic castor oil. Generally, we would aim for opening for pleasure, and gradually and gently ease the issue, so that your body can learn to trust.
Stella is an Intimacy Coach in London and Online
Stella offers sex coaching at her practice in Central London and online, for individuals and couples.
Feel free to contact Stella, and arrange your initial Zoom consultation.
I look forward to hearing from you!