Body-Based Sex CoachingSexological Bodywork and Somatic Sex Education
Individual Sessions for Women, Men, Couples, and people of any Gender, or Sexual Orientation, in Central London UK (or via Skype):
As a certified Sexological Bodyworker and Somatic Sex Educator, I provide sex coaching sessions for women, men, couples, and people of any gender, or sexual orientation. My practice is located in Central London, easily accessible by public transport (or via Skype).
Here is a list of the different types of coaching that I provide:
Improve your relationship with couples sex coaching. Whether or not you currently have sex in your relationship, you may want to find new ways of communicating about sexual or sensual preferences, and find new ways to be intimate with each other. Read More…
Experience yourself in full sexual aliveness! Whether you want to explore your sexual fantasies, or to address and overcome a very specific issue, sex coaching and sexological bodywork can help you. Read more…
- Returning to Sex
- Sensual Exploration and Boundaries
- Orgasm for the First Time Ever?
- Help with Painful Intercourse
- Vaginal Mapping
Sex Coaching and Sexological Bodywork can help you: accept yourself with your own unique sexual preferences and needs; learn to overcome shame and communicate about your desires, and acquire tools and techniques to be a better lover for yourself and your partners. Read more…
- Premature Ejaculation and Orgasmic Choice
- Erectile Dysfunction
- Delayed Ejaculation
- Anal and Prostate Explorations
Whatever your gender identification or sexual orientation, I’m happy to be your skilled, fully aware, present and respectful guide towards: more deeply felt sensation; getting into tune with yourself; or to overcome specific issues in the areas of sexuality, sensuality, or communication about intimate matters. Read more…
“Thank you for today’s session. A wonderful warm energy flowed through your hands from the first moment, which I found very healing. And also your own comfort with making sounds and movement helped me to relax and open up. I enjoyed the slow pace of the work which enabled me to listen very deeply to my body and feelings, all round it was a very comforting and healing experience in which I felt lovingly well held.”(Female client)
(…) “This is what changed about me, from being afraid [of male genitals and intimacy with a male partner] to loving it now. Also I do enjoy when he pleasures me. […] I have made big progress. Thank you, dear Stella, as you are the one who has helped me through our sessions to open more to sexuality, and a relationship.”(Female client)
“I made an appointment to see Stella for help with delayed ejaculation, which had been a difficult issue for me throughout my adult life. It was something that was very frustrating for me and for my partners and can be a very difficult thing to deal with and explain. Although very nervous about taking this step I knew that I owed it to myself to at least try to see if there was anything I could do to improve things and, with hindsight, it has proved to be absolutely the right step. Stella was understanding, patient and completely non-judgmental. Despite my nerves I quickly found that I was able to talk to her about the problems I was experiencing and began to feel comfortable doing so. Stella listened patiently and over a series of sessions that involved talking, bodywork and homework I experienced a transformation in my understanding of the issues I had been experiencing. The impact on my sexual wellbeing has been enormous and I am so grateful to Stella for her help. I would not hesitate to recommend her to anyone experiencing sexual problems: life is too short to suffer in silence and my only regret is that I did not have the benefit of Stella’s help years ago.”(Male client)
I had for many years wrestled with feelings of guilt and shame surrounding masturbation and sex. Thankfully last year I plucked up the courage to see Stella. I found her open and calm approach allowed me to open up and talk frankly about long standing sexual issues. Being able to be completely uninhibited in front of someone supportive has been amazingly positive and allowed me to get away from negative feelings surrounding sexuality and body image.
I have since come back to Stella to further explore my sexuality. Once again she has been very nurturing and is really helping me through hands on coaching with managing my arousal and trying new ways of experiencing pleasure. I am feeling a new found confidence which effects all parts of my life. I feel as though I am only part way through the journey, but that it’s a great journey to be on.
Charlie (quoted with consent)
Stella is more than a Sex Therapist
Stella is a Certified Sexological Bodyworker and a Certified Somatic Sex Educator, and a hands-on Sex Embodiment Mindfulness Coach, who sees clients of any gender or sexual orientation in her practice in London, Fitzrovia. She also teaches workshops in London, and internationally.
Please outline the issue you would like to consult me about briefly by sending an e-mail to Stella@StellaWithLove.com.
We can then arrange a complimentary, up to 20 minute phone, skype or zoom consultation.
Look forward to hearing from you!