Events and Workshops
Would you feel safe to attend a sexuality workshop or an intimacy workshop if you felt comfortable beforehand that it would be an excellent and absolutely professionally administered and guided experience for you?
Following our series of four Master Lovers evening events and a Master Lovers weekend workshop in 2016, a semi-private Men’s sexuality workshop in March 2017, which were focusing on enhancing our love making skills by looking at our own touch preferences in detail, rediscovering the pleasure of touch via sensation in our hands, and bringing our newly acquired skills into erotic and sensual touch, we are now offering a Sensual Sunday Afternoon for Couples.
Additionally, we are offering vital communication tools for couples, in our day workshop Pillow Talk.
The first and foremost factor in being a masterful lover is the Quality of your Touch. I’ve seen miracle transformation happening with just a little learning in that area, and this may improve your intimate relations to a degree you would not have thought possible. Of course, there are certain specific strokes and techniques – we’ ll come to those in later workshops as well – however conscious touch is the prerequisite for all of these. The foundations for this series is Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent and her 3-Minute-Game. I know, and have studied with, Betty Martin in person. Have a look at her website, where a great number of excellent videos are available to view, free of charge.
We had a lecture-style intro evening on April 20th 2016. here is some feedback by participants:
“I almost died, you know? I discovered a new erogenous zone I did not know about…” (male participant)
“It was a pleasure to participate in such an insightful evening exploring touch and reflecting upon our experiences. Simple yet sophisticated exercises leading to expansion of mind and body and therefore a more conscious way to touch and relate.” (female participant)
Cuddle Party London:
The Challenge – Lack of Touch
In the Western World, we live in a touch-deprived environment. Single Person households are on the rise, and 35% of all London households are now occupied by just one person.
Touch is a human need. As children we would simply die if we didn’t get touched at all. The need for touch does not just go away when we grow up. Regular loving touch has a huge number of health benefits, like better immune system, improved cardio-vascular health, and well-being generally. A hug lasting for more than 20 seconds releases Oxytocin, which is beneficial for heart rate and blood pressure. It is also called ‘the bonding hormone’, and creates greater trust between individuals, better teamwork, and has a number of other benefits. Some people may consider this a type of intimacy workshop even though cuddling is not sexual.
Most people tend to rely on their romantic partner as the sole source of loving touch, however it is a relatively new phenomenon that we live outside of traditional communities, where mutual touch was just ubiquitous. Can we really demand from a romantic partner what an entire extended family gave to to each other previously?
The Solution – Cuddle Party London
Betty Martin says, when we keep touch and sexuality apart, and look at both individually, it actually enhances both.
Not all touch is sexual.
Think of business handshakes for example, or hugging your children, or relatives. Think of the pleasures of stroking your cat.
The reason why we take loving touch as an innuendo for sexual contact only, is a one-track mind set, and the fear of not being able to set boundaries.
Cuddle Party is an excellent safe playground to practice our Yes’s and No’s, and to feel into our authentic responses in each moment. Unlike in other environments, we are actually encouraged to change our minds – when we respond to the present, change is normal.
My mission in my Life and London Cuddle Party is to empower people to set boundaries, which allows for more tactile pleasures with each other – We can only ever say yes after we have learned to say no. When closeness feels risky, it’s usually due to an inability to say no.
Come, practice and play, at Cuddle Party London – and shift your horizons forever, for happier and healthier lives that allow you to thrive as the human being you are.