
Let’s talk Curvatures in C*cks – most are not Peyronie’s!
Let’s talk Curvatures in C*cks – most are not Peyronie’s! Most penile Curvatures are normal – not Peyronie’s Most men have a slight curvature in
Let’s talk Curvatures in C*cks – most are not Peyronie’s! Most penile Curvatures are normal – not Peyronie’s Most men have a slight curvature in
Date Night In? Playful Sexuality can be Fully Clothed! Part 3: Go wild, without even taking your clothes off Date Night In? Playful Sexuality can
Date Night In? Touch doesn’t equal foreplay! Date Night In? Touch doesn’t equal foreplay! Part 2: Touch without hidden foreplay agendas Hidden foreplay agendas behind
Date Night In? Intimacy does not equal Sex! Part 1 – Tuning In for Intimacy T’is the season, for intimacy date nights in Longer nights
How to be Fully Present for Pleasure in Sex I have a lot of pleasure in sex – and then I think about how I
3 Ways to improve your body image Is your Body Image letting you down? Our body image is of course shaped by the way we
Are you having a Big O – or a Climax? A lot of people would argue that a big O and a climax are one
3 types of Orgasms without Genital Touch What actually IS an orgasm? Quite frequently, I get female clients who are not sure if they do
Orgasmic Yoga Practice – 3 Ways to approach Mindful Masturbation! Mindful masturbation and Orgasmic Yoga can be fun, and surprisingly profound! This may be completely
How to have Better Orgasms? How to have Better Orgasms? A very frequent request I get from women clients, of all ages and from all
Why do Women Masturbate? Why Do Women masturbate? It’s not only because they feel horny! According to this article in the Metro, there is a plethora
3 reasons why Great Sex will never (Ever!) stay the Same Wanting to hang on to the good stuff – Great Sex! When Sex is
‘Nobody cares about Women’s Pleasure’ This is a quote by the famous actress Emma Thompson, in a recent Glamour mag interview. With ‘Good luck to
4 Reasons why you might want to try Anal Sex (and how to go about it) Anal Sex may need a little bit of planning
Painful Sex? Here is a simple way to get back to Pleasure… My girlfriend has a new lover. She is all excited, and tells me
Are you thinking about sex – when you have sex? Let’s face it, our thoughts can wander. Are you fantasy based? High arousal is sure
When is the Best time of Day to Have Sex? This is a question I ask quite often in my client sessions – at what
Do you owe your partner Sex? (Sexless Marriage, anybody?) Do you feel like everybody you know is having lots of sex, apart from you and
3 Easy Feedback Tips that avoid killing the Mood Criticism is not sexy. Try criticising your partner three times a day, and watch your relationship
Keeping Sex fun while Trying to Conceive – TTC with Intimacy Coaching Intimacy Coaching can help Couples who TTC Getting really serious about having a
Everyone, including Intimacy Coaches like me, has felt the debilitating impact of our current crisis. Where does Intimacy Coaching come in, and can it free us
Yet another three extra weeks of lockdown have been announced today. Hopefully, this post finds you and your loved ones healthy and as happy as can be, in these circumstances. This lockdown may look very different depending on whether you are with your partner, with…
When I teach workshops – only online in these times of Covid-19 lockdown – what people remember most or pick me up on is when I say ‘Separation is a Myth’, or ‘We are never truly alone’. Some people of course get triggered by these sentences. A participant who had…
Both women & men sometimes fake orgasms or exaggerate their levels of sexual pleasure. Why? Find out how to avoid this through good communication, so you both get what you want!
Take the pressure off yourself this year, with my quick tips for a sexy Valentine’s Day. Valentine’s with a partner? Plan a sensual date with your partner. This can be a lot of fun and may even involve some preparation beforehand: sexting, going to a sex shop together…
Something many people want to know is how they can feel more empowered and confident in their sex life. One reason for that people don’t feel confident or empowered is that in our society, there is still a lot of shame and judgement concerning sexuality, particularly…
Sex Coaching in Victorian times In Victorian times, women were supposed to enter marriage as virgins, whereas men were expected to have had some sexual experience before marriage so that they knew what they are doing, once entering a marriage. Young unmarried men might…
…And How to Get Intimacy Back Into Your Love Making Why would Perfectionism be a matter for a sex coach? Perfectionism has steadily increased in the past 27 years, and is still on the rise (Thomas Curran & Andrew P. Hill, 2019). Perfectionism is not limited to…
Good question! Most people don’t know the difference between what a sex therapist does and what a sex coach does. They usually guess that a sex therapist talks you through a therapy process and a sex coach coaches you through a sex process, but is that right? Sort of…
When running into intimate problems, most people will probably google ’Sex Therapist near me’. But what exactly is a Sex Therapist? And are there any alternatives to seeing a sex therapist? Yes there is an alternative, you could see a sexological bodyworker. What does…
‘Since I started asking for consent every step of the way I don’t seem to get to have sex any more’, a conscientious friend confided in me a year back. Is asking for consent a turn off? There has been a huge learning curve over the past forty years since women started…
Are you able to say ‘NO’, confidently? Chances are, if you can’t say no, your Yes will be somewhat halfhearted, too. We all so long to be loved for how, who and what we are. The prerequisite for being loved like that is to show up as ourselves, rather than what we…
This must be one of the most frequent issues male clients ask me for help with. Dear Women, in case you didn’t know, please take note of this: Men have a lot more work to do than women when it comes to heterosexual intercourse, While I don’t want to say that…
I am excited to be at the forefront of recent developments by receiving a certificate in the still relatively new profession of Sexological Bodywork, founded by Joseph Kramer, PhD, in 2003, in California. As I am also trained in Tantra, I frequently get asked what the…
Psychological issues such as shame are sometimes the root cause of an inability to orgasm.
‘ve just reviewed the book Decoding Your Kink, by Galen Fous. As a Somatic Sexologist and Certified Sexological Bodyworker, I feel this is an excellent and much needed book by an expert on fetish sexuality, experienced psychotherapist and academic researcher.
‘If my mother could see me now. She would say, how silly are you, doing anything like that.’ My female sex coaching client is lying on her back, naked, while I’m sitting fully dressed between her legs and mapping her vulva and vagina. I point out to her that her…
Career, brilliant. Kids, oh yes, they are fine. Marriage happy, and yet…. If you are yearning for more pleasure and enjoyment in life, chances are that I can help you and your relationship to thrive. You are a Woman who is not sure if you have ever had an orgasm? Or…
‘What does that mean, becoming REAL?’ asked the little boy his father. They were both sitting on the terrace after dinner, looking out into the
It is Winter Solstice today, and with all the Christmas Parties going on, and all the good things to eat and drink before Christmas, it’s