Touch and Pleasure-based Relationship Coaching
Learn to Communicate about your Preferences
& Rediscover Intimacy in your Relationship
Touch and Pleasure based Relationship Coaching can do wonders for your Relationship!
Whether you currently have sex in your relationship or not, you may want to find new ways of communicating about sensual or sexual preferences, and find new ways to be intimate with each other.
Sometimes, the demands of daily life get into the way of enjoying each other’s company, taking time for each other, give and receive loving touch, and be intimate with the one you love most.
Book your first Touch and Pleasure based relationship coaching session. You may find that you would like to touch each other more, or simply get ideas to find more time for each other, beyond managing the demands of family and everyday life.
This kind of Relationship Coaching will help to rediscover your pleasure in your own body, and offers simple and sophisticated tools and techniques to give pleasure to your Beloved, or to receive.
You may choose to remove your clothing in these relationship sessions, depending on our educational contract, however, neither nudity nor intimate touch are in any way mandatory. Rest assured that both of you will have agency at all times.
Touch and pleasure based Relationship Coaching is a great investment in your relationship!
Heterosexual Couples are welcome, as well as Same Sex Couples, or Polyamory Triads, etc.
All sessions are tailored to suit your learning goals. They can be in a talking setting with somatic elements, or involve touch facilitation, including touching your partner intimately.
How Can I Help You?
Learn To Pleasure Her
This session can start fully clothed, and then you can take off as many clothes as you like. Find your authentic Yes’s and No’s with each other, and learn about specific strokes she enjoys.
Feel free to explore either sensual areas all over your body, or allow your partner to touch you intimately with your constant feedback, and Stella’s expert guidance. Discover erectile tissue and pleasure zones you never knew about, be it between your toes, around your ears, or in more intimate areas.
Touch and Pleasure Relationship Coaching focusses on YOUR pleasure, and will show you what you enjoy, what you don’t, and how to communicate it to your partner.
This session is sure to put a smile on her face.
Learn To Pleasure Him
This session can include anal and prostate massage tuition, or focus on non-intimate areas only.
I would usually suggest to start fully clothed, and try a few strokes in non-intimate areas, before you can then choose to remove clothes, according to your educational contract.
Touch and Pleasure based Relationship Coaching is about honest and fearless communication about your desires, and also an exploratory journey into what you enjoy. Discover new erogenous zones you did not know about, or focus on a specific area where you would like to explore your sensations with your partner.
The Art of Touch
This session can be fully clothed, and helps you enhance your touch, and your openness for pleasure.
All too often, we rely on prescribed or learned procedures when it comes to touching each other, and need to re-discover the excitement and aliveness of sensation.
Touch is vital for lovemaking, and erotic touch needs to be learned and experienced.
Very simple tools and techniques can help you re-awaken the pleasure you take in touch for its own sake, and give your partner sensual thrills.
Wheel of Consent
This is a great starter for any Touch and Pleasure Relationship Coaching Session. We will use Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent to explore your touch preferences and then proceed to play her 3-Minute Game, consisting of two questions: ‘How would you like me to touch you for 3 minutes?’ and ‘How would you like to touch ME for 3 minutes?’.
Beyond trying to please your partner, or fear they might be bored, you dive into your own pleasure, and learn to enjoy yourself, and then learn about your partner’s preferences. Prepare to be surprised!
This is also a great resource to take into your own sensual dates at home.
Stella is an Intimacy Coach in London and Online
Stella offers sex coaching at her practice in Central London and online, for individuals and couples.
Feel free to contact Stella to arrange your initial Zoom consultation.
Stella looks forward to hearing from you!